Women Pregnant from Date-Rape

4 Jul

Woman Drugged at a Club
I was out drinking with my friends, and my drink was spiked
I was outside the club upset and a guy came over talking to me and said he would help take me home
I ended up at his..... And when I realised he was unprotected I asked him to stop but he carried on
I cannot have an abortion as my family are against it but I am not ready for a child, I can barely look after myself. I am currently concentrating on my career and saving money for a deposit on a house
Age: 18
Current Country: United Kingdom
Country Born In: United Kingdom
Ethnic Background: White/Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Marital Status: Single (never married)
Relationship Status: Dating (but nothing serious)
Children: 0
Consensual Sex?: I consented to some but not all of it
If the sex was partially consensual please explain: I was drunk, and when realising it was unprotected I asked him to stop but he did not
Relationship to Man Who Got You Pregnant: He was an aquaintance
Did you use ANY form of birth control? If so, which method(s) did you use?: I did not use birth control
Does the man who got you pregnant support your decision to have a miscarriage?: He does not/would not care what I do
Does anyone know that you are pregnant?: No
Does anyone know that you are considering aborting the pregnancy?: No
What consequences might you face if you are discovered trying to end your pregnancy?: No serious penalties
Is medical or surgical abortion LEGAL where you live?: No
Have you had a medical or surgical abortion in the past?: No

Young Woman Date Raped by Boyfriend
I was druged and rapped by my boyfriend at the time. And beaten by him. The i moved away in with my dad to get away from him. And later found out i was pregnant. Before i found out though i had gotten drunk at a party and smoked weed. I dont want this baby because then id have to be with my ex boyfriend. And im too young and cant afford it . I feel bad for all of it. But its just not the right time

  • Age: 16
  • Ethnic Group: White/Caucasian
  • Religion: Not religious/Not religiously affiliated
  • Birth Control Used: I did not use birth control, Hope... I did not think I would get pregnant
  • Reason for Pregnancy: Non consensual sex
  • Consequences: Financial hardship. I simply can not afford to have a child at this point in my life., Forced to leave school, Disowned by family (forced to leave home or not allowed to return)

Woman Forced to Have Sex by Friend
I have a friend who is so madly inlove me but i am not, i went to visit him at his place then he forced me to have sex with him. i tried to fight him and when he used a condom but maybe it busts because i was fighting. I so love my boyfriend and i still didnt tell him about this since am scared what will happen but i will tell him because of the love i feel for him.

  • Age: 22
  • Current Country: namibia
  • Country Born In: namibia
  • Ethnic Background: Black/African/African American
  • Religion: Christian
  • Marital Status: Single (never married)
  • Relationship Status: It's Complicated!
  • Consensual Sex?: Yes it was consensual
  • Relationship to Man Who Got You Pregnant: He is a friend
  • Were you, by your own choice, under the influence of drugs or alcohol at the time of conception?: No
  • Did you use ANY form of birth control? If so, which method(s) did you use?: Condom (male), The Morning After Pill (Plan B)
  • Does the man who got you pregnant support your decision to have a miscarriage?: Yes, he supports my decision
  • Does anyone know that you are pregnant?: No
  • Does anyone know that you are considering aborting the pregnancy?: Yes
  • What personal consequences might you face if you are found to be pregnant?: No serious penalties. It's just not the right time., Financial hardship. I simply can not afford to have a child at this point in my life., Disowned by family (forced to leave home or not allowed to return), Husband/boyfriend will leave me because the child is not theirs
  • What consequences might you face if you are discovered trying to end your pregnancy?: No serious penalties, Imprisonment (because abortion is illegal where I live)
  • Is medical or surgical abortion LEGAL where you live?: No
  • Have you had a medical or surgical abortion in the past?: Yes
  • Please tell us about your previous experience with medical or surgical abortion: When i found out that i am pregnant,we discussed with the man who pregnant me to get abortion pills,Cytotec Misoprostol. I inserted pills in my vagina that night and after two hours i started vomiting, cramping and bleeding. i passed some big clots and i thought that was it. I felt i had abortion but it never happened so am still pregnant and i dnt know what to do because i work in the field and we travel distance everyday which is unsafe for my pregnancy and am not ready for this baby. Is theres no natural way i can use for 22 weeks pregnancy?