Women Seeking to Abort Date-Rape Pregnancies

17 Oct

1. 16-year-old Restrained and Raped by Boyfriend

I was over my boyfriends place on day, and his parents went out. I'm the type to take things slow, so I suggested just cuddling and watching a movie. He didnt agree and instead pushed me to the bed and held my arms down so I couldn't defend myself. My words didnt stop him either. Afterwards I ran out of his house crying and when I got back he was too. Previously another time I was over he tried to have sex as well but I stopped him, luckily. Then he told me how ashamed he was because he didnt listen and blah blah. He's no where near as stressed as me. I'm under 16 and can't let anyone find out! I'm so stressed, even thought of suicide!

Age: Under 16
Country: Austraila

2. South Carolina Woman Strangled on Movie Date

About a month ago, I was hanging out with a friend of my sister's boyfriend. The two of us had talked a while on the phone and decided to hang out one day. The plan was to go to a party but ended at his house where we watched movies and talked. I fell asleep and was awakened with him on top of me. I told him no....that's when he strangled be, bursting the capillaries in my eyes. It was horrible and painful. I felt so dirty as he continued to lay on me after he finished his business. I made my exit when he went to the bathroom. Called my sister to pick me. So embarrassed didn't tell anyone but her.

Age: 26
Country: USA, South Carolina

3.  Pregnant Woman Suspects Being Drugged on Date

I began dating this guy(M), He was more of my rebound. I had recently come out of a two year relationship with the man I love with all my heart(R). And the relationship ended because of the other guy(M). He constantly was putting things in my head and my boyfriends head, until we broke up. Then he took advantage of the fact that i was vulnerable, to get close to me. I was so stupid not to see it:( One night we went outwith a few other friends and we had some drinks. I only had one. It was a Long Island Iced Tea. (M) brought it to me the drink, after that drink I felt like I no longer had control over myself. It was strange. Everything was so out of focus and I was just completely out of it. Then we went back to his place. I couldn't even walk without help, after only ONE DRINK. And next thing I know I'm home and only remember some pieces of what happen, but enough to know what happen. I know he used protection. I did take a pregnancy test after but Lately I just feel so tired, I get weird cravings for food. I get light headed. & I don't know if its my head messing with me or what but i think i have a slightly small belly. This happen December 28th 2012/: Im running out of time. I do not speak to him anymore(M). I am currently still in high school and Im suppose to be enlisting into the military Next month. My entire future depends on that. If i turn out to be and it gets to the point i cannot do anything i will lose it all; Money, car, Job, my parents will kick me out, boyfriend, 100% payed college tuition. And so much more. I know it may seem shallow and unfair to the poor baby if there is one, but think of it this way, im not ready in anyway for a baby. I won't be able to give it everything needed and i refuse to live off the government.(welfare/food stamps etc) The only thing i can possible give would be affection, but this world doesn't function on affection and love. Money is EVERYTHING. And If you cannot uphold yourself you go and get nowhere. I can barely do that now, how am i going to do it with a kid? Adoption is not an option either. It is simply, I can not have a baby now and no one can ever know.

Age: 18
Country: USA, Florida

4. Woman Violently Raped by Trusted Partner

I had been seeing this guy for about a year, I really trusted him. He'd never betrayed my trust in any way or made me feel pressured. I remained and wanted to remain a virgin until marriage. A Saturday night a few weeks ago we went to a club and were drinking, he took me to his car and being pretty out of it I didn't notice we weren't taking the usual route to his place or mine. We ended up in some random motel from what I can remember in which he told me he had a surprise waiting for me, I went in with him and he led me to a room. We made out a bit there was a nice dinner set up but he started getting more aggressive than usual, he pulled off all my clothes and pushed me down onto the bed yelling he couldn't resist me anymore. He raped me. I was a big part of that, I let it go as far as I did because I trusted him and after a year together didn't believe something like that would happen. I take a lot of responsibility for what happened but I got raped at the end of the day, and I'm pregnant. I'm in school I don't have the money for a child Or an abortion and my parents would throw me out and have nothing to do With me if they found out. Please help

Age: 19
Country: USA, New York